The One With The Whinging

I am quite sick and tired of that crazy stalker ex of M's. She goes off her nut at him, calling, texting, emailing - constantly. She is relentless. She really is. Then after all the crazy behaviour, she says she loves him and that she's sorry for the way she has behaved.

I understand being upset for your relationship ending etcetera but how long is she going to continue this madness?? It has been many months that they have been apart and I have been with him for all of that time, bar one month. I know it is difficult to move on sometimes, but for fuck sake!

She must realise that she is interfering. She must know that her contact is annoying. Why does she persist? She knows they won't get back together. She knows he has moved on. She knows that I am in his life.

I had been quite annoyed with him for allowing her to keep doing this. We had a conversation about it. I was very upset at the time and considered leaving him. But there is no point to that. We love each other and there is nothing going on between the two of them, except her nutty behaviour.

As usual, I allowed him to decide for himself what he would do. He agreed that deleting all of her attempts of contact was best now. I would have preferred that he did this a long time ago, but he needs to make his own decisions about what is best for him, and for us. I'm glad that he chose this path though.

I don't want to feel insecure because of her continued interference. I don't want to nag him into doing what I want. But damn, I really want her to drop off the face of the earth...